Better Sex, Better Life, Better Man
Better Sex, Better Life, Better Man: The Good Guy’s Guide to Unleashing Your Inner Bad Boy in the Bedroom has been described by one leading sex expert as “a book that every man, and particularly every young man, should read.” It offers men of all ages many practical, useful, science-backed tips for navigating the often-complex world of modern sexual relationships by unleashing their inner bad boy in the most respectful way you can imagine. Drawing on research and reports from a wide variety of expert sources, Steven Campbell explores not only the practical aspects of better sex but also the history of women’s sexuality and why so many women hold back from giving full rein to their true passion and sexuality. He also offers many tips and strategies to help men focus on enhancing their partner’s sexual pleasure and increasing the likelihood that she’ll orgasm—whether it’s once or multiple times.
Younger men whose early learnings about sex often come from unrealistic porn are particularly likely to benefit greatly from this book by learning how to develop and enjoy an authentic approach to sexuality—knowledge that will ultimately also benefit their partners. Designed to be read by both men and women, this book will be an indispensable resource for anyone who is interested in becoming a better person and a better lover—and just maybe building a better world in the process. Better Sex, Better Life, Better Man is a fun, modern guide to help men and their partners explore and fully enjoy each other and their life together.
Who this book is for:
- Any man of any age who wants to learn more about female sexuality and how to help his partner have maximum sexual pleasure and orgasms.
- Young men who need to unlearn the sex misinformation popularized by porn.
- Women who want to learn more about their sexuality and desire.
- Marital and relationship counselors who need a resource to help their male clients improve their sex lives.
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“Better Sex, Better Life, Better Man is a book that every man, and particularly every young man, should read to ensure they have the information they need to identify and challenge sex myths, and prioritize their partner’s pleasure.”
— Lori Brotto, PhD. Author of Better Sex Through Mindfulness – A Guide to Cultivating Desire and The Better Sex Through Mindfulness Workbook.
“In an age of sexual misinformation and misguided sex myths, Campbell has written an ambitious and generous book that succeeds in helping men access and harness an authentic sense of their own sexuality.”
— Ian Kerner, PhD. Sex Therapist and NY Times best-selling author of She Comes First.
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Table of Contents
Preface
Introduction
Chapter 1: When Women Came First—and Often
Chapter 2: Say Hello to Your New Friend, Your Inner Bad Boy
Chapter 3: Dressing the Part—Looking Good to Look Bad
Chapter 4: Taking Charge—and Finding Balance
Chapter 5: The Art of Loving—Lifelong Seduction 101
Chapter 6: The Art of Loving—Kissing as Sexual Artistry
Chapter 7: The Art of Loving—The Right Touch
Chapter 8: The Art of the Female Orgasm—“Showers of Stars”
Chapter 9: The Art of the Female Orgasm—From “Showers of Stars” to Northern Lights
Chapter 10: The Art of Loving—Thrust Smarter, not Harder
Chapter 11: Let’s Talk Oral—How to Be a Cunning Linguist
Chapter 12: Sexy Dirty Talk—Talking Up a Storm
Chapter 13: Marauders—Take a Walk on the Wild Side
Chapter 14: Final Thoughts—Better Sex, Better Life, Better Man—Better World
Further Reading
About the Author
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Chapter 2: Say Hello to Your New Friend, Your Inner Bad Boy
Boldness. Confidence. A take-charge attitude. Going in hard and fast for the first kiss. Openly desiring his partner. Bad boys have many attractive qualities. Why else would so many women be drawn to them? Clearly, because they’re human and they’re “bad” some may also have negative and dysfunctional qualities that present real challenges to any woman who wants to be in a healthy relationship. But we’re not interested in narcissistic, self-centered, or misogynist behaviors. We want to zero in on the bad boy’s positive traits and use them to help us—the good guys—in our relationships, and maybe also in life in general.
Debunking the Myths
Bad boys can get a bad rap, as they’re often painted with the brush of toxic masculinity. In fact, they have a number of positive qualities—such as a sense of boldness and fun, and an air of “safe danger” and unpredictability—that are highly attractive to many women (and men). Focus on developing at least some of those bad-boy attributes to give yourself a boost in love, life, and work.
What Makes a Bad Boy So Appealing?
So, what is it about these guys that makes them appealing to so many women?
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Chapter 13: Marauders—Take a Walk on the Wild Side
Note: This chapter is about the FANTASIES some women have—not reality. It’s critical that you understand this distinction before we go any further. While some women may have fantasies about aggressive sex, that doesn’t mean they’re okay with any form of unwelcomed or uninvited attention. Fantasies are no excuse for any form of assault, harassment, or inappropriate touching of any woman. No means no. You must get consent.
Note: This chapter also talks about some more intense physical sexual acts.
If you don’t want to try any of these, you can still use many of the other less intense techniques in this book to help boost your partner’s sexual pleasure.
Now we’re going to check out the wilder side of sex: marauders, aggressive sex, and the fantasies some women (and men) have about these and even more extreme behaviors. We’ve talked about “good” bad boys and the positive traits they exhibit. But what about the men who appear to cross the line into really bad-boy territory? Real marauders don’t care about the line—they just cross it. Good guys may need to pretend to cross this line so that their partner feels that her fantasies are almost real. Almost. Here we look at the marauder fantasy and how you can draw from it to create an extra level of excitement for your partner.
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Steven Campbell is a writer, researcher, and communications consultant who researches, thinks, and writes about issues related to men, women, sex, sports, and culture.
In his spare time, he works out; enjoys great food, wine, and beer; always has a stack of books ready to read; and enjoys all sports, especially basketball, soccer, and golf.
He lives in Vancouver, Canada, where he was born and raised. He has two degrees from the University of British Columbia, but he is proudest to be the father of a daughter and a son.
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